Six Signals That a Senior’s Caregiving Needs are Changing

Depression is not the only sign to look for during holiday visits to older relatives. Here are some other red flags from the 2007 Adult Caregiving Show Me Guide, a free publication that provides extensive and easy-to-read information, advice and support for individuals and families faced with the often overwhelming challenge of providing caregiving services to aging or disabled adults.

What are some warning signs that my loved one’s caregiving needs are changing?

• Changing relationships with others or withdrawal from social interactions
• Unusual behavior, such as being overly quiet, loud or agitated
• Neglecting personal care, including hygiene and nutrition
• Signs of forgetfulness such as piles of newspapers, unopened mail and scorched pans
• Mismanaging finances, not paying bills or making unusual purchases
• Not keeping up with household chores.

What can adult caregivers do when warning signs appear?

• Do not be afraid to seek or accept assistance. There are many free or economical public and private services for Adult Caregivers seeking a respite from providing continuous care.
• Talk with your loved one to find out what they need and what they will accept.
• During your visits, watch for warning signs of declining abilities, such as changes in grooming, eating, or social activities.
• If you notice what appears to be a decline in thinking and reasoning, you might want to ask a physician to “test” your loved one for cognitive function.
• Buy a workbook to organize information.  Keep track of your loved one’s condition and prescription drug information.
• Establish a network of support (friends, relatives, neighbors and physicians) and keep in touch. Go to www.rightathome.net to download a free copy of the 2007 Adult Caregiving Show Me Guide from Right at Home. The Guide covers important issues such as advice for those who are adult caregivers, answers to frequently asked questions, and guidance on the next steps to take when one becomes an adult caregiver. The Guide also provides extensive resources and contact information in the areas of care giving education, disease-specific organizations and senior health and aging.

Reprinted with permission from the Caring Right at Home Newsletter, http://www.caringnews.com/ http://www.caringnews.com/ , and its publisher Right at Home, In-Home Care & Assistance, http://www.rightathome.net/, http://www.rightathome.net/.